How to Bring Up Hearing Loss With a Parent Who Doesn’t Want to Talk About It

Talking to a parent about possible hearing loss can be difficult, especially if they become defensive or insist that nothing is wrong. Hearing changes can happen gradually, making it possible for someone to adapt without realizing how much they are missing.

If you need to bring up hearing loss with a parent, approaching the conversation with patience and understanding can make it easier for them to consider getting help.

Start With Your Concerns, Not Criticism

Rather than telling your parent that they “can’t hear,” focus on what you have noticed and how it affects communication.

For example, you might say that you have noticed they frequently ask people to repeat themselves or increase the television volume. Keeping the conversation focused on specific observations can feel less confrontational.

Choose a calm, private moment rather than bringing up the subject during an argument or frustrating conversation.

Listen to Their Concerns

Your parent may have reasons for avoiding a discussion about hearing. They could be worried about hearing aids, concerned about cost, or uncomfortable acknowledging a change associated with aging.

Give them an opportunity to explain what concerns them instead of immediately trying to persuade them.

The goal of the first conversation does not have to be to get them to agree to hearing aids. It can simply be opening the door to talking about their hearing.

Encourage Your Parent to Take a Hearing Test at Fairfax Hearing Center

A professional hearing test can provide more useful information than assumptions based on everyday conversations.

You can make the idea feel less intimidating by offering to help schedule the appointment or accompany your parent. A hearing evaluation can determine whether hearing loss is present and provide information about potential next steps.

At Fairfax Hearing, we can provide a professional hearing evaluation and discuss hearing solutions based on your parent’s individual needs. Our experienced audiologists have nearly 25 years of experience providing personalized, pressure-free hearing care.

Call us at (202) 851-2657 to speak with a member of our team or request an appointment online and take the first step toward better hearing together.